By Beth Winze
Dropping $25 on cosmetics anymore is a no brainer for most females. It is a stress-free and swift solution to eradicate wrinkles, dark eyes, frown lines, and enhance your skin. Magazines plaster painted faces, photo-edited curvaceous bodies, and flawlessly shaped eye brows on their glossy, alluring covers. With mantras in bold-faced print on the front, such as: “Feel Beautiful All Year Round with [insert brand] Line of Makeup”, “Create Flawless Skin in fewer than Ten Minutes”, “Cover-up Those Wrinkles with This New Formula”- no surprise the majority of females in the United States have lost the meaning of true beauty. In my reading this morning, I grasped just how much I have accepted the excessively manufactured make-up dynasty that controls my life. Cosmetics that were designed to help enhance our natural beauty have now become our security blanket to hide any “inadequacies”.
While cat-eye eyeliner and orange-y face exteriors may put us under the misconception of flawless skin, it does not aid in covering up our true feelings about our beauty. Every girl fights with beauty insecurities. What makes a sixty-five year old woman look in the mirror and decide it is time for skin firming treatment? Those wrinkles and crow’s feet show a life of joy and laughter, but she wants to appear youthful again. What does the twelve year old girl in the mirror think right before she slips on bright, red lipstick? No, make-up is not wrong when using to enhance the natural beauty in you, but when it is used to hide “imperfections” than there is a problem.
David Spellman, a clinical psychologist with Lancashire Care Trust states the ever-growing obvious, “I think the culture we live in and the magazine and TV images we see … affect children’s psyches – there does not seem to be one honest picture in the images we see in our doctored beauty culture. We are being increasingly particular of how we look and at a younger age.”
Not only are Victoria Secret models cavorting around in the skimpiest of boudoir apparel, but they are also giving the impression that evocative hair, make-up, and clothes make one prosperous in life. What kind of image is this leaving in a seven year old girl’s mind? Definitely not the right image of true beauty. Not only are these models giving girls false pretenses, but when teenagers and adults little girls look up to do not display the confidence they need to see, these girls are found pining for reasons to consider themselves beautiful.
It took a shocking statement for me to realize how much I accept a lack of self-esteem. A younger girl I am dear friends with looked up to me one day and said, “Beth, I do not understand why you do not see yourself as beautiful.” My response came out somewhat befuddled, as I never chatted damagingly about myself in front of her, “What do you mean?” She simply said, “I can just tell with how you act.” Then she strolled off and I was left dumbfounded. She could tell I was not solidly based in my true beauty. This statement was enough to make me do a 180 and reconsider the way I saw myself. I stopped the heavy make-up, and the desire to always be dressed to the nines in public. I have found great confidence in only mascara and sweatpants.
Back to the glossy magazines that tempt us as we stand in line at the grocery store – they are completely phony. It is easy to say but it is hard for our minds to accept the fact that those models are edited, and over-done. You have probably seen the before and after comparisons of models, but just to drive the point home, here is an example:
(Picture Source: http://www.news.com.au/news/gallery-fn78rwin-1226525944743?page=5)
Yes, the girl on the left is the same as the girl on the right. It is amazing how lipstick, blush, eyeliner, eyebrow pencil, mascara, hair, a painted on beauty spot, flashy earrings, lip liner, contacts, and teeth whitener bring out the true and natural beauty she was born with. *sarcastically said* “Maybe she’s born with it, maybe it’s Maybelline.” It is a terrible thing when a photo-shopped image can make us hate our mirror appearance.
I believe in models, but not the runway, lingerie, Abercrombie models – role models. There is a world of difference between the two. Use your natural beauty, and your personality to influence those around you. Your deep passions and love will shine through and show your true beauty for what it is really worth. I am not saying that all models are corrupt. Look at Kylie Biscutti for example.
Kylie Biscutti won an online lingerie competition, at the age of nineteen, to walk the Victoria Secret runway as an angel for one show. Biscutti modeled previously for boudoir shoots, but her Victoria Secret show placed her on the fashion model map. Her husband prayed throughout her entire modeling career, but supported her descion to continue modeling, if that is what her heart desired. Biscutti eventually had an epiphany and released everything and walked away from Victoria Secret modeling. Her epiphany?
“My body should only be for my husband and it’s just a sacred thing. I didn’t really want to be that kind of role model for younger girls because I had a lot of younger Christian girls that were looking up to me and then thinking that it was okay for them to walk around and show their bodies in lingerie to guys.”
(Full Interview Link Here: http://lifeteen.com/goodbye-victorias-secret-an-interview-with-kylie-bisutti/ )
Biscutti walked away from her fantasy profession in order to preserve her faith and image as a role model. She went on to write a book titled “I’m No Angel”, in which she targets girls aspiring to be models. In interviews she made it clear that right after the models come off the runway, it is not uncommon for them to collapse and/or pass out from botched crash diets. Numerous models are covertly hospitalized after shows because of grave eating disorders and shortage of proper hydration. Biscutti says that while she was in the modeling business, her managers would call her telling her she was gaining too much around the thighs and needed to drop in a horrifically short period of time.
Wearing make-up is not wrong, modeling for the right reasons is not wrong. I will still continue to wear make-up, but I choose to use it as a natural beauty enhancer. I do not want to hide under layers of fake disguising the real me. My personality shining through is what makes me beautiful. Everyone is beautiful. We are all created in God’s image and we are wonderfully and fearfully made. On my mirror are taped two verses.
1 Peter 3:3-5a – NIV translation
“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves.”
Philippians 4:8-9 – Amplified translation
“For the rest, [sisters], whatever is true, whatever is worthy of reverence and is honorable and seemly, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely and lovable, whatever is kind and winsome and gracious, if there is any virtue and excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think on and weigh and take account of these things [fix your minds on them]. Practice what you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, and model your way of living on it, and the God of peace (of [a]untroubled, undisturbed well-being) will be with you.”
Getting ready in the mornings is a bit more convicting when these two Bible verses are right in your face. Write them out and put them on your mirror and you will be forced to look at yourself differently. The idea of make-up is not so important when you’re staring at the reflection of a princess.